Motherhood meets academic Mentorship, balancing nurture, knowledge, and guidance
In every academic journey, there are teachers, and then there are torchbearers, rare individuals whose presence ignites not only intellect but also spirit.
For me, that guiding torch has been Prof. Hadiza Ibrahim, a woman whose wisdom flows far beyond the lecture halls, reaching into the deepest recesses of life itself.
My first encounter with her was during our faculty orientation, back in my early days as a fresher.
The hall was buzzing with anticipation as students shuffled nervously in their seats, unsure of what awaited us at that new chapter of life.
Then she walked in, dressed with elegance, carrying an aura of calm authority that captured the hall without raising her voice.
Her speech was not the usual academic introduction. Instead, she spoke of values, modesty, community, and discipline.
Motherhood Meets Academic Mentorship
She particularly emphasized the importance of dressing with dignity, especially for women in Kano State, where culture and religion intertwines deeply.
For many of us, it was the first lesson in understanding that being a student was not just about academics but also about responsibility to community and self.
After that orientation, our paths did not cross again for some time. It was only much later, during my penultimate session, that I had the privilege of sitting under her direct tutelage in Community Broadcasting classes.
By then, I was no longer the unsure fresher but a student slowly shaping his identity in the world of mass communication. Yet, despite my growth, her lectures revealed just how much more there was to learn.
Her classroom was never an ordinary one, yes, she taught us about community broadcasting, its role in giving voice to the voiceless, in bridging gaps between development and the grassroots, in shaping narratives that uplift rather than exploit.
But alongside that, she wove lessons about life itself. She would pause mid-discussion to reflect on issues of morality, responsibility, or the challenges of adulthood.
She guided us gently, correcting without shaming, encouraging without overwhelming, even when our youthful exuberance tipped into mischief, she never raised her voice in anger. Instead, she would smile, remind us of our purpose, and steer us back on course.
To me, she was more than a professor; she was a Mother Professor “a phrase I fondly coined” because she embodied the patience, guidance, and discipline of motherhood in every lecture.
Her life beyond the classroom is equally a lesson in resilience, Prof. Hadiza has walked through valleys of grief and emerged with grace intact.
A year ago, she lost her husband, worth a devastating blow by any measure, amidst that, just three weeks ago, she lost her younger sister.
Yet, even in mourning, she continues to stand as a pillar for her students, her colleagues, and her community.
Motherhood Meets Academic Mentorship
Whenever you call her, she will pray for you. Whenever you meet her, she will encourage you. In her presence, I learned that strength is not the absence of pain, but the courage to keep giving love despite it.
Her contributions also extend beyond academic walls. I vividly recall listening to her interview with the BBC Hausa Service, where she spoke passionately about menstrual hygiene.
With clarity and compassion, she urged parents to pay closer attention to their daughters, emphasizing that dignity and health must never be overlooked.
That interview was more than an opinion, it was advocacy at its finest, a call for society to uphold responsibility in the most intimate corners of family life.
In moments like these, one sees how her influence transcends her title as a professor. She is an activist, a reformer, and above all, a voice for humanity I guess.
As one of her students, her impact on me has been immeasurable. Through her course, I gained not just theoretical understanding but practical orientation in community reporting.
She instilled in me the belief that journalism is more than breaking news or chasing headlines, but it is about telling stories that matter, giving voice to the marginalized, and addressing issues that shape society.
Since then, I have proudly reported on several health-related stories, carrying forward the lessons she etched into my conscience.
Motherhood Meets Academic Mentorship
Each story I tell bears traces of her influence, the insistence on truth, the compassion for humanity, the drive to make journalism a service rather than just a career.
But perhaps what makes her most remarkable is her humility, that despite her vast knowledge, her respected position, and the countless students whose lives she has touched, she carries herself with a quiet grace.
She listens as much as she speaks. She advises without condescension. She prays for her students as though we were her own children.
In an age where academia can often feel detached and transactional, Prof. Hadiza remains deeply human, and deeply connected.
To be her student is to inherit not only knowledge but also values.
It is to learn that greatness is not measured by titles or accolades, but by the lives one shapes and the hearts one touches.
For me, and for many others, she is proof that a lecturer can be more than an instructor; she can be a compass, a nurturer, a mother in spirit and deed.
Today, as I reflect on her influence, I cannot help but express my gratitude. Ma, the world acknowledges your impact. Thank you for being a light in our lives.
Thank you for proving that teaching is not just about books and exams, but about shaping souls and building futures.
Motherhood Meets Academic Mentorship
The legacy of Prof. Hadiza Ibrahim will not only be written in research papers or academic citations but also in the countless stories of students like myself who walk into the world carrying pieces of her wisdom.
To us, you’ll always remain a beacon, a scholar, a mother, and a timeless source of inspiration.
Prof. Hadiz
